This post is going to be short because I am on my own now, and have no time. My mom came this last week to help me out, and boy do we miss Nana!
This is my view while he's in the Moby Wrap. I love this thing. Seriously, go out and get one!
Also, people have been asking if Reid likes Link, and the answer to that is... kind of. Reid has been warming up to the idea of having a little brother, but still gets pretty jealous. He has regressed a bit with his potty training, and is doing more things to get attention, (and by "things" I mean fits...) but he's only 2, so we are trying to be patient and each day seems to get better as we establish a routine. He's still my cute buddy, and I love him to pieces!
My three most favorite guys!So, we are all alone. I am going to try and be bloggy, but we will see how it goes...anyone with 2+ kiddos have great advice for how to survive the dreaded transition weeks? We are actually doing pretty well, but I'm only on day 2...
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Transitioning from 1 to 2 it hard, but from 2 to 3 was real easy for us. When we had Zoe, when she was napping, we would, or I would if Steve was at school/work, would spend that time with Jake. If both were sleeping, I took a nap too. We would get Jake involved with helping with Zoe. Getting her a diaper, or a blanket. He's favorite thing to do was to make sure she had her blanket in the swing, and to keep that swing a swinging. He was only jealous for about a day. But he was 20 months when we had Zoe. We would try to keep to Jake's schedule as much as possible. And when those bad days come, don't be afraid to put kids on quiet time. For us, that as Jake in his room playing quietly, and Zoe in her swing where she would fall asleep pretty quickly. Just take it one day at a time and don't let the little things bother you. If the dishes don't get done that day, it's ok. If your house is still a mess when you go to bed that night, it's ok. There are only so many hours in a day and not everything can get done. Good luck, and things will get easier. You'll be surprised at how fast you get to be a pro at being a mommy of two!
Having #2 was SO much more work than one...until the little guy could crawl around. Then it was like HALF the work. They played together and I would get suspicious if it was too quiet. Our first two are 16 months apart.
When #3, #4, and #5 came along, each of the boys got a job just like the Richens' kids. That REALLY helps them to be a part of the process instead of an observer. It's hard to be a victim of parental negligence when you can actually be a big helper. Young kids love love love to help, as you already know with Reid.
Sometimes, I feel bad that my laundry has been sitting in a heap on my family room floor for 2 days and I just don't want to fold it. Then I have to pat myself on the back for even washing any of the dirty clothes. One day, it'll all be put away...unless we widdle away at it day by day when we need to find something clean to wear.
Good luck!
those little guys are very cute. I am sure I will experience what you are going through with Reid very shortly. To be honest I think it will be the best thing for Carson he kind of think the world revolves around him, and I guess right now it does:) Anyway I am sure your busy with two now I feel like I have no time sometimes with one so I can only imagine. Wish you were closer:) have a good week
Expect a call from me soon. Mason wants more Reid time and maybe you could use a nap. I am so proud of you guys and your little guy is adorable! Call me if you need anything!
well I never went from one to two and I think that helped with the jealousy thing but the boys did act out because they new my attention was split so they really tested my limits. If you look back at my september post you will see what they did to get attention, (poop on the wall, blew up the microwave, got into the pantry food....) They were quite a hand full while they were testing my limits. I just made sure I made time for them and reminded them they were still just as important to me as they were before Gavin was born, When clint was home I would take them to the park and play while clint took care of Gavin or bake cookies with them. It will get better, they will be best friends before you know it. Good luck, if you need anything let me know. I am home all day everyday :)
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